Today marks the last time I will be writing this article for Gate House Media and I want to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of you for reading it over the years.
Having to come up with something of value and interest every week can be daunting. I know as someone who has done thousands of talks in a host of venues that we don’t always hit the mark. I was fortunate to be “in the zone” many times, but I also know that there were times when I was simply on autopilot.
My style of writing has been analogous to how I was brought up, and the many years of teaching stress management. I am essentially a pragmatist and I have tried to extend that viewpoint through my articles. Having been on this planet for an extended period of time has allowed me to view how the culture has shifted in so many ways. I realize that’s called progress, but I am constantly amazed at how we have simultaneously regressed. I’m sure some might view the aforementioned sentence as someone who might not be “with it”. In many ways I don’t want to be part of all the new advancements which are supposed to make life easier. I often feel that a lot of what the culture feels is hip and groovy has hindered people from being present to life. I’m sure this viewpoint has been expressed by previous generations. My mother thought Elvis Presley was an abomination.
I am hoping that as a society we might become more adept at teaching common sense and critical thinking skills from the first grade on. Perhaps that might counter some of the incivility that has crept into society more and more. I would love to see people in healthcare more concerned about lifestyle habits and less about medicating individuals as the easy way out. I yearn to see more individuals smile, laugh and becoming the fun they’re seeking. I like the ability to connect through Facebook, texting, e-mail and such, but nothing beats a face to face conversation.
Aging has taught me a very important lesson. It is absolutely necessary to enjoy as much of your day to day as possible since our days are truly numbered. Try to “be” a human being and not a human doing. We never know when what we take for granted will no longer be available. Also try to understand the importance of endings. Some we choose and those we don’t. They can be great fodder for becoming more resilient. I wish the best for all of you. And I leave you with the following by Winston Churchill “Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end, But it is perhaps the end of the beginning”
~You can continue to read great articles from Loretta LaRoche on her Facebook page and her Get A Life Blog. This is not the end. 🙂
3 Replies to ““I often feel that a lot of what the culture feels is hip and groovy has hindered people from being present to life.””
your words resonate with me. at times I wish I could pinch closed the wires carrying the power to the mind-numbing devices. Programming the first VCRs took some critical thinking 😉 the way things are now commercials for driverless cars?! Who needs good judgement? are we being encouraged nØt to think? just be hamsters in a wheel cranking out pellets feeding the foot that stands on All our throats. I just turned 65. when I see the faces of a 5-6 yr old I shake my head in shame. 50 yr ago I thought these politicians would be out of office but they are Still Alive! we’re in a toilet and the handle on the bowl (vote) is Broken
Thank you, Loretta, for your always-helpful thoughts! This one was especially timely and helpful for me as I approach (with mixed emotions) the day of retiring from my long-time job.
I will miss your posts, and will continue to follow your Facebook page and blog. So much common sense along with humour.
This quote of yours is so very important. “Aging has taught me a very important lesson. It is absolutely necessary to enjoy as much of your day to day as possible since our days are truly numbered.” It’s a constant reminder to enjoy life. I’m 67 (which was ancient when I was young, and now it feels young!), and I plan on a lot more years ahead of me. Moment by moment.