Life is not a Stress Rehearsal”

“ According to the Bloomberg Global Health Index a baby born in Italy can expect to live to be an octogenarian. When it comes to living a long life, Italy is the place to be. Even through they suffer from economic woes, and that 40% of their youngsters are out of jobs they rank first in being the healthiest in the world”. Ironically the United States comes in 34th with an obesity rate of 67.3 percent.
When I read the above I was honestly stunned. Part of me shouted, Yes, Yes, of course. My response is certainly predicated on the fact that I am Italian and have relatives that lived well into their nineties. I grew up watching many of them smoking, drinking wine, eating sausages, cheese, pasta and lots of expresso. They also ate a lot of vegetables and fruits. The Italians, like many other Europeans, smoke which should elicit a shorter life span but hasn’t in Italy. We have spent years eliminating smoking from our culture which I know is a much better choice, but it has not necessarily helped us to live longer.
Where the conundrum lies for me is the amount of effort that is put into trying to change health habits in America which don’t seem to be working. We continue to promote products that take the place of real food in lieu of food that replicates their taste through chemicals. A famous soda company recently unveiled a drink that has zero calories and no sugar. The replacement for the sugar is aspartame which has been shown to create health problems. The list of chemicals contained in some sodas and foods often feels analogous to what you might find on a paint can.
I think one of the most important issues that effect health and longevity is the fact that Italians are not workaholics. Their average workweek is 36 hours. They also take time to eat lunch, have four weeks vacation, and spend a lot of time with friends and family. We have become addicted to being available to our workplace 24/7. In order to break away from work, chores and our incredible attachment to gadgets, we try to fit in some down time when possible. Instead of making relaxation, fun, and connection to the important people in our lives, we try to find a space to give them somewhere in our crowded schedule.
We are also suffering from a great deal of stress which is the end product of feeling like we are on a runaway train. Our perpetual need to fill each day with multiple tasks and to keep trying to keep up with the constant flow of information is creating a culture riddled with anxiety. It’s time to start realizing that “ Life is not a Stress Rehearsal!”

About lorettalaroche

An international stress management and humor consultant whose wit, and irreverent humor, has, for over 30 years raised the humor potential in all of us. She is on the Mass General advisory council for anxiety and depression and was recently awarded the National Humor Treasure Award. Loretta writes a weekly newspaper column called, ‘Get a Life’.

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2 Responses to Life is not a Stress Rehearsal”

  1. Stephanie Ainsburg says:

    I love this Loretta!
    I wish I could say I totally my life like that but the reality is that it’s hard to when the world around you does not subscribe to this. Any tips on how to turn off the outside pressure when you are surrounded by a culture obsessed with living life the opposite way and you feel like you are always swimming upstream? As always, thanks for the laughs and good advice!

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